I had no idea of writing a blog , cuz whenever I felt glad or sad, I had THAT ONE person, to effuse my feelings!! And Since that person left me now , I had no other option . If I write, I would feel lite! Ithu pudikkalena, mannichurunga ! Pudichuruntha enjoy pannunga !! cheers
P.S. Dont get into any thoughts !! That person was just my close Friend !
We find girls cribbing about failed relationships and careless boyfriends, asking themselves: Where are all the decent guys? The answer to that is: Right where you left them — in the best friend zone!
And so, all around us, we see guys being “best friends” with the girl
they want to be in a relationship with. Without getting into the mess of
placing the blame at either of the sexes, here are a few tips for guys
to not end up in the best friend zone with the girl they love:
The right beginning:
Guys often believe that friendship is the best platform for starting a
relationship. While it does prove fruitful in several cases, it is
also the very thing that might result in putting them into the best
friend zone. Caution!
Let her know: Even though
girls already have a hyper sensitive seventh sense to know when a guy
likes her, don’t ever take that for granted. Tell her what you feel, or
you’ll regret the silence forever.
Don’t be too available:
Let her realize your worth. If you’re there for her every time she
wants you, she’ll take you for granted. It’s not her fault; it’s basic
human nature.
Play dirty: Hang out with a hot
girl, just to make her jealous. If she has feelings for you, she’ll
envy any girl hanging out with you! And then she’ll wonder why. There.
That’s how she knows she loves you.
Know when to stop:
Learn to draw lines, and set limit for yourself. For example—if the
girl is someone else’s, she’s someone else’s. Respect her choice and
let her be. You don’t want to see her heartbroken.
Almost
always, it’s the guys who misread signals and end up in the friend zone
forever. So, if she warned you right from the beginning, and you still
stayed “best friends” with her all along, in hope that she will
someday fall in love with you, you need to realize that when she
doesn’t—it’s not her fault. It’s you who needs to move on and get a
life!
The son's duty to his Father is to make the world ask
"By what austerities did he merit such a son?"
-Thirukkural
On this Father's Day , I promise you Dad that one day I ll make the above saying true.
First of all, I lament for not wishing my Dad on the first note. Thanks to SUN TV , for letting me know about the day. We youngsters have prioritizing issues. We would sacrifice the whole night's sleep and wait to wish the "All of a sudden" stranger turned girl/boy friend. But when it comes to our Parents, we totally forget. How ironical!!
"OPPOSITE CHARGES ATTRACT EACH OTHER" . Maybe this is also true in case of Parent-Children relationship. Its quite natural that guys are more affectionate towards their Mother and girls towards their Father. I aint an exceptional case to this law. I haven't been more expressive to my Dad . Moreover he is not a strict, rough & tough kind of person. My cousin brothers do share a lots with my Dad than I do. Such a lovable friend he is. I was searching for a picture for this blog which made me to realise later that, I dont even have a single picture of myself with my Dad . Seriously , I hated me like anything for that. Sorry Naina (This is how I call my daddy) :(
This one is for you.
My Father, Mr.Perumalsamy the youngest living son of Mr&Mrs.Perumal Naidu @ Solaipatti, thirumangalam. I am proud to claim that I belong to the Royal Naataamai (Godfather of the whole vilage) family. And, believe me , even today if we go there the respect and love that we receive there make me feel goosebumps. "Oru Vikraman movie paatha maathiri!!" . My grandpa, despite of his unstable income made all his children to attain proper education. All credits should be attributed to my Grandma for this. My Dad got his Bachelors Degree in Commerce from the Virudhunagar Hindu Nadar College.
Before marriage, he worked in Dharani Sugars in Tirunelveli. Then, he joined Soundararaja Mills as an accountant and worked for almost 15 years. If you ask me I'll say, He was underrated there. At Present , he is working as Admin Head @ IPAC boards.
I have admired about Him in lots of things and the best thing I like about Him is his witty nature and spontanious sense of humor . The way he narrated about how he along with his friends used to run around the ground before sunday special lunch is still an epic to me . He can easily make anyone to laugh. He still mocks about my paunch with a mere hope that I will atleast take some steps to get lean. But , ME ?? Never!!!
And another thing which he has got a lot is his dedication to his work and loyalty to his employer. I envy on his administrative skills a lot . To him, nothing is impossible, unlike me. He is so good at forecasting the future. My cousins, whenever they come home for vacation, never fail to meet my Dad for discussing about their future plans. He is more of a friend, to all.
All through my life , he has been very supportive to me. I barely remember, the day when I got beaten by Him. Even If I say , he has never beaten me , that won't be an exaggeration. Whenever , I fail in my tasks , he never ever uttered a single word that would hurt me . Instead , he keeps on boosting my confidence level. He says just one thing ! "GIVE YOUR BEST! COME,WHATEVER RESULTS IT MAYBE!"
He never denied anything I had asked . If I ask Him money means, the next moment He'll say "naalaiku transfer panniduren kannu!! 1500 pothum la?" He doesn't have copious money to give whenever I ask. But, still somehow he makes it possible. I feel bad for spending lavishly. Sorry Naina , I will try to change myself. He funnily complains that I talk to him only for money. Its not like that naina, the reason is again, "OPPOSITE CHARGES ATTRACT EACH OTHER".
There are lots and lots of things which made him to be my"ALL TIME FAVOURITE STAR"
and this one blog is not enough to put in everything.
People say that we are the creations of God. I am not a big believer in God. But , I accept this fact that we are God's creations . Yes, my parents are my God.
Love you Dad .
P.S. I thank everyone who read my first blog . Your valuable comments are duly noted and I will try my best to improvise in the upcoming posts.And I have given lots of sentimental stuffs in the first two blogs. So , my next one will be filled with fun. Cheers :)
DISCLAIMER : As I have explained in the description , I am entirely new to blogging and I owe my sincere apologies for any flaws in my writing. Critics are welcomed :) Since, being the first post , I thought of writing about a thing which I was mourning about for a long time, but these guys , Gowtham & Gowtham threw a light on me and made me to think. So I thought to write about a thing which I would cherish forever. So, sitback and enjoy.
Dedicated To My Amma , The reason for myself being here. But if she comes to know that I am wasting time by writing these things instead of studying, She will probably hang me upside down and beat in my back(dont imagine the scene Please!!). But still, She deserves to be at the first place in my heart and yeah in this blog too.
So, Let me start...
You might think that "ennada ivan !! ivanoda birth story la enna puthusa irukka poghuthu?!!
But , this is not about me, Its about those people who went through hardships at the time of my birth.
To begin with, my parents Mr. Perumal Samy & Mrs. Mahalakshmi both got married on 24th August 1990.
My mom comes from a family of Service. Her dad , my grandpa worked for the Indian National Army. And he wanted his daughters also to do serve for people and made them to enter the noble profession of being a Nurse. After marriage my mom had to travel daily to Kumuli (Theni) for work. And my Dad used to go and drop her in a cycle at the bus stand.
And during the month of May, my Mom was at the final days of her maternity period. And the doctors have predicted the time of delivery to be around 2nd week of June 1991. It was at that period, the Tamil Elam issues were at the peak in Srilanka and The eelam War II was just ended. All of a sudden on May 21, 1991, the then Prime Minister Rajiv Gandhi was assassinated at Sriperumbedur . The whole nation got dumbstruck . Riots broke out and Tamilnadu was the centre of curfew since it happened here. And apparently, the President brought 144 emergency rule. All shops were closed . There were no vehicles, not even public transportation, and as usual the life of the Aam Aadmi got affected . While the entire country was puzzled about what will happen next, here in Dindigul , my Mom got the Pain. No one expected this, as there was 3 more weeks for the predicted date. To increase the pressure, my Dad wasn't at home . He had went to drop my aunt. Luckily, in those days we were like a joint family, and my grandpa and my Mom's sisters were residing in the same compound. . My Big Daddys(periyappa) Jeyaraman & Algarsamy were at home. They searched the entire town, and there was not even a single vehicle. It was heavily raining. And my Mom was dying of pain .Engeyo evano pannathuku , yaarellam kashta pada vendiyathu irukku??!!!I hate those terrorists(or activists, wat they say!!)
And that incident, that happened next, will make tears to roll down from my eyes, even when I think now!!
Having left with no choice, my periyappa pulled a hand-cart from some corner of a haunted aloof street .
They made my Mom to lie in that cart and pulled it by hand, to the Government Hospital which was about 5 kms away. If they hadn't be there , I dont know, whether U ll be reading this. And my Dad came to know abo this later and rushed to the hospital, and amma was in the operation theatre. Luckily, it was a normal delivery. My das is like "bold at thoughts and weak at heart" . Which man on earth could bear hearing his better half dying in pain. He was restless and walking here and there. And in sometime, that happened. The doctor came and wished my dad that he was blessed with a Baby Boy . Every single man on this world will yearn to hear this words "Congrats!! Ungalukku payyan/ponnu poranthurukka(n)". Having heard this, My dad would have jumped out of joy. There are no leaps and bounds for this feeling. So, There I was, Son of Mr & Mrs. Perumalsamy.
God knows the art of balancing, very well. When he calls back a Leader to him, he sends back another one down :P (Okay. Accepted . Self Boasting. And this is mean!)
I used to say even now, "amma!! naan unna romba kashta paduthutenla?!!"
My mom will reply back,"poda!! kirukku payalae!!"
And thats what we called as Mother's Love.
I dont know how I am gonna reciprocate for these.
To all those people , who went through such pain, I have only one thing to say, as of now.
"NEENGA ILLAMA NAAN ILLA!!!".
Wait! Wait! I think I have stuffed you with lots of sentiments.
So, here's a piece of thing for you to laugh about.
THE AFTERMATH OF MY BIRTH:
Since, I was a premature baby I was Underweight when i was born (Sathiyamaa!!!) my Mom used to feel about me every night and go on through a mourning spree. So , wat she did was, she fed me with lots of nutritive things like Ceralac, Pediasure such kinda stuffs!!! So, at the end of 9 months , people used to ask my mom whether I am 1.5 yrs or 2 yrs old..
Appo aarambicha growth, innum ninna paadilla!!!!
The other reason for this extraordinary awesomatic growth is my uncles and aunties. My mom ll feed me in the morning and will leave for work. After that everyone will take me to their home and feed me for their part. "naanum engeyum venaam nu solla maatenaam!!!!" kadavule!!!!
Now they tease me like "nee evlo kuduthaalum saapduva da !!!! nee romba nallavaann".
And my obsession towards music started long before. people say that, making me to sleep, or stop crying is as simple as it is. Play some music.And I am into my own world !!!
And the rest is history !!!!!
Thanks for reading......
P.S. Sorry for the length.. I couldn't write it in a crispy manner!! will try to reduce in the next post!!
